Arranged or love marriage What is your opinion?
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- Hari Prakash
In my opinion arranged marriages are best and if you love somebody and your marriage is arranged by your parents is always excellent.
I think Arrange marriages are good because when you really love some one you dont think about the other things like family ,background ,education,standard etc ,and if you married that person without seen these things ,you will regret your own choice,and if family choose some one for us they look in all aspects and then take decisions,so most o the time these decisions are good for us furthermore when we was too young our all decision taken by our parents now they have some hopes and dreams for all life why we not give them chance to do that..........and in modern world they always allow us to talk to that person before whom they decided to get marry with us ,at that time we can talk and judge accordingly.....
Actually it depends on the person's own opinion. I think the type of marriage in which two people know each other before they get married and whichever makes it possible is the best.
Different societies have their norms, believes and customs. Arranged marriage is mostly found within people in some parts of the Pacific Islands who want to maintain their clan lands and so make arrangements for marriages in their own extended families. If the arrangements are not honored this may end up losing a family member or the one who dishonored the arrangement may live for the rest of his or her life with bad luck. For some it is not that mandatory so if the other finds love outside the arrangement (s)he takes his/her own decision as long as the parents are happy with it. My view is that it is not a good idea for arrangement to be made because a boy/girl does not exercise his/her own will to decide for himself/herself. After all (s)he is the one who will be living with the partner for the rest of his/her life. In addition, it is better to know some one well before deciding to live with him/her so that your life is not miserable and to ensure a happy ending as in 'living happily ever after' in most fairy tales.
LOVE MARRIAGE IS GOOD AND LONG LASTING,,,,,,,,,,ARRANGE MARRIAGE IS COMMON,,,,,,,,TO KUCH HATKE KARO DOSTON,
- Dr Pram...
Arranged marriage is arranged by the onlookers and not intimately involved parties but so called well wishers and they naver take at times any responsibility when failure is in sight! Love marriage is the relation arrived at by the two persons who are intimate and actually involved and there they know each other very well what one expects from the other and so on. I will always vote for love marriage only!
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